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Vivian Family of Luis Avila April 6, 2008
 

My condolences go out to you and your family for the loss of Jacky. He is a very handsome man. He has a beautiful memorial site! I can tell how much he was truely loved and how he touched the lives of many people.

 

Janice you are a very strong women! For me, lossing Luis has been the worst pain I ever felt in my life!! I could never imagine lossing one of my children. You are an amazing women!!

 

I know, we will never understand why God takes the best ones so young! It is extemely hard to not ask WHY on a daily basis. Then, on the other hand I see it as, in reality they are the lucky ones! Walking on the streets of gold, no more pain nor suffering, no more tears, where the land flows of milk and honey. Where there is no more evil! As bad as this world is getting, we know they are safe and we will be also! Because we have the best guardian angels watching over us and they are walking hand and hand with Jesus.

 

I will promote organ donation soon, but my mission I have in sight right now, I am headed to Congress about the FDA and warning labels. The FDA is scadelous in using us as there guinea pigs without our authorization.

 

As for why you were not asked to donate Jacky's organs. When the body suffers trauma, as Jacky did, it puts major stress on the organs which can cause damage to the veins. Making the organs unable to be  transplanted.

 

I am also an organ donor. I signed up when I got my license, but for the organ donation to be legal when you die you need to have it stated in your will. Also you need to discuss this with your power of attorney or family members what your wishes are. If you leave no will your family can do what they want in spite of your wishes.

 

Thank you so much Janice for leaving your condolence. Luis was ALL I had besides the kids. And his family is another story. It helps me see the light thru all this darkness when there are angels on earth like you!! Thank you and just remember ONE DAY,

Edith ,Mom of ^j^ Dennis Memories April 1, 2008
 

Janice & family,U sound like  a  real close bunch..Keep  Jacky in every  conversation,talk  to  him & about  him like he's still  w/u,which he is.He life meant  so  much,& to  Hell  w/anyone who  may  feel uncomfortable  hearing about him.Our boys were  worth  so much  more ..The y should be remembered,talked  about,both good/bad  times..Lord  knows  I had both & tell  everyone who'll listen.

Did  u ever  wonder how  some  Moms  are brought  together?/..I don't  think it was just a coincidence that  u happened  upon my sons site..Our boys brought us together..We are  sisters  in joy/Grief/Stay Strong..Hugs,Edith

Feel free to  contact me thru  his site.E

Edith ,Dens Mom Another Angel's Mom March 27, 2008
 

Janice,thank u for  visiting  my son Dennis Maddolo.I feel like  we're  playing tag w/our boys.I'm glad  to bring u some  hope  of  not being alone..I want u to  know it's  OK to cry,scream,laugh & talk about  our Angels..They may be  gone  for  now,but  they brought us unmeasurable joy while they were here  & for that we  should be forever grateful.I still have a bad day  here  & there  when I ask that  question,WHY??  But  I feel Like  I need  to  celebrate his life instead  of  dwell on his passing(Sorry,I can't say the "D"word)His  life ,as  i'm sure  Jacky's  did also,brought  so  mant  friends,fanily & possibly starngers  a glint of  happiness..they  were here  for  a  reason,& now  they have another  mission to  complete..If I didn't have something ,,some thought to  cling to ,I'd  be in  that black pit we tend  to  fall into.

Trust  me,we're  ALL strong..We're  Mothers ,,a  special  breed..To  have  the most precious gift  we  ever recieved  ripped  from our  Hearts & to  survive that ,even if it's  1  day @ a time,makes us very rare  ..We can  do this & we  will.. No 1 else may understand u,but  u  know  exactly what I mean,& I understand  u w/o ever seeing  u.Stay  strong My Sister!.Our boys  will help us  to move  forward  in this  journey of ours ,on those day we  just want to  ball up & disappear.Hugs,Edith

Janice Mama March 26, 2008
 
Thank you, Nana.
NANA WITH LOVE March 25, 2008
 

glitter-graphics.comI WISH I HAD YOU HERE WITH US FOR YOUR MOTHER THAT HAS BECOME SUCH A TRUE FRIEND TO ME THERE ARE DAYS I DON'T THINK I COULD MAKE IT WITHOUT HER HERE WRITING TO ME EVERY DAY AS A TRUE FRIEND THE WORDS I READ ARE OF PEACE FROM A MOTHER THAT TRULY LOVED HER SO THAT CARRIES THAT LOVE WITH HER EVERY DAY IN HER HEART AND HER WORDS TO ALL THAT ARE IN PAIN YOU WERE SO LUCKY TO HAVE HAD A MOTHER LIKE HER I LOOK EVERYDAY TO SEE STRAIT AWAY IF SHE HAS WRITTEN TO ME BECAUSE HER WORDS FROM GOD TAKE ME THREW THE DAY JACKY GOG BLESS YOU REST PEACEFULLY NOW AND LOOK AFTER MICAH FOR ME WHEN I LOST HIM I LOST MY WORLD AND CAN'T SEEM TO GET IT BACK NANA LOVES YOU BOYS OUR VERY OWN ANGELS LOOKING DOWN ON US GUIDING OUR WAY EVERYDAY
NANA WITH LOVE YOU DO NOT KNOW March 24, 2008
 
YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR WORDS DO FOR ME IN THE DARKNESS I CAN HEAR WHAT YOU SAY HAS I AM ON BENDED KNEE I REMEMBER YOUR WISDOM YOU HAVE SENT ME WHAT A WONDERFUL SON YOU MUST HAVE RAISED IF IN HIM HE HAD ANY OF YOU GOD WILL HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE FOR JUST YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CHAIN IN HEAVEN WILL THEN BEGIN PEOPLE LIKE YOU WERE SENT HERE FOR PEOPLE AND TIMES FOR SOMEONE LIKE ME THANK HEAVEN THAT OUR BOYS SENT YOU TO ME I BELIEVE THEIR IS A SPECIAL PLACE OR GOD FOR CHILDREN YOU SEE AND I'M SURE THERE IS A SPECIAL PLACE FOR YOU TO GOD WILL SEE TO YOU IN WAYS THAT WILL REWARD YOUR WORDS YOUR FAITH YOUR UNSELFISH WAYS TO HAVE SO MUCH PAIN AND BE ABLE TO SHARE AND SAVE TIME JUST FOR ME YOU WERE SENT TO ME FROM GOD I'M SURE OF THIS YOU SEE THE PAIN IS STILL STRONG WITH IN ME BUT YOU SAVED ME MORE THAN ONCE FROM THE WORST THING THIS COULD OF CAUSED AND I THANK GOD FOR HIS GIFT OF YOU TO ME EVERYDAY YOU SEE YOU ARE NOT JUST SOMEONE ON THE INTERNET TO ME A FRIEND YOU HAVE BECOME TO SOME ONE IN SO MUCH NEED ......THANK YOU LORD FOR SHARING HER WITH ME
Connie Matt's Mom March 23, 2008
 
Janice,
Thank you for your writing such a nice condolence note.  I am also so very sorry for the loss of your equally amazing son, Jacky.  There truly is no worse loss, is there?  People have said to me that saying, "Only the good die young" but I have to say I really don't like it.  I don't understand it.  I was telling that to the asst chief of police at Florida State Univ, whom I have gotten to be very good friends with since my son's death, (he is very passionate in the fight against drunk driving)  and he told me how he also doesn't like that saying but instead likes to say, "Only the good live well."  I like that much better and it certainly fits both your Jacky and my Matthew.   Not only did they live well but they loved and appreciated life.   I will never understand the why's of any of it.  As you stated,  the good ones, the moral ones, the dedicated ones, the ones dedicated to living life "real" (as Jacky put it) -- and as Matt would say to me, "Mom, I live life." And then we see time and time again the ones that throw every second away and/or treat others so badly to say the least.  And they go on.  I guess until we are once again reunited with our children we won't truly understand the why's. 

As far as the person that took Jackie's life, even it the driver was not drunk but rather under the influence of drugs, it is all the same.  It is DUI.  And it is murder.  They made their car a lethal weapon when they got into it while under the influence of whatever substance.   The only thing I can say about both of the people that killed our sons is that they are off the street.  The guy who killed Matt had quite a few prior felonies and had just picked up his passport so they knew he was getting ready to flee the country which is why he is behind bars on such a high bond awaiting trial.  Thankfully -- because in the meantime he can not do this to another innocent person, put another parent through this nightmare.

Since Matt's death I have had a hard time saying Happy anything but I do very much wish you peace. 
NANA THINKING ABOUT YOU March 10, 2008
 
A PERSON OF SPIRIT COURAGE AND SOMEONE SO FULL OF LOVE HELPS AND SUPPORTS OTHERS WHEN THEY THEMSELVES IS GOING THROUGH THEIR OWN GRIEF YOU ARE SOMEONE SPECIAL JACKY HAD A WONDERFUL MOTHER ONE THAT I'M SURE LOVES EVERYONE AND I'M SURE SHE WAS A 'GRAND' MOTHER TO YOU JACKY MAMA I LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU I FEEL YOUR SUPPORT AND YOU PAIN IF NOT FOR ALL OF YOU THERE WAS DAYS IN THE BEGINNING I DID NOT THINK I WOULD SURVIVE THIS. NOW I JUST CLOSE MY EYES AND PRAY I PRAY FOR USE ALL THIS IS THE HARDIEST OF ALL STRUGGLES FOR ME I TRY HARDER EVERYDAY FOR MY LITTLE ONE
Janice Mama March 3, 2008
 
Alax, if you want/need to keep Lindsey's sight going...let me know. 
Alax . =] February 27, 2008
 

Hmm . Well I don't have a visa and neither does an adult that will go with me . My mom said I could go but I had to take an adult . =]

 

I guess it's better for me to stay here and be with Lindsey .!

 

Times might get rough and I don't wanna be too far away !

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