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NANA LOVES YOU ALWAYS have good memories May 26, 2008
 

Vivian Family of Luis Avila May 18, 2008
 

Hello Janice~ Thank you so much for all your words of spirit. They are always so uplifting for me. When I read your words, I feel a sense of freshness inside. I always enjoy reading the wisdom that GOD has instored in you. You are a true women of GOD. I appreciate having you as my friend and Sister in Christ.

How are things going with you? I hope you and your family are all standing strong!

 

I think I have finally found some counciling for me and my children. After begging and begging the school of my youngest girls, to no avail, they would promise to send my the information and I would never receive anything. I talked to the Middle School where my oldest daughter goes and the VERY next day I received a phone call with the information. There school counselor even emailed me a list of the information to my work. Me and my children have discussed counciling and they are all for it! They only problem I have faced is my girls are bi-lingual and they express alot of their feelings in Spanish. The 1 counciler that was most recommended is bi-lingual. So, I have an outlook now that maybe I can get my family back to normal!!

 

Again Janice~ Thank you for always being here for me. I have never met you but you mean so much to me. I love ya girl and thank you!! 

 

Vivian

Shelli Chance's Mom May 17, 2008
 

Hello Janice,

 

Thank you so much for your comments on my son's memorial.  Like you said, we, as mothers, only know how it feels and the depth of the pain and sorrow.  My heart breaks for you to and your family.  Jacky seemed like such a nice young man and was so loved and his pictures he is so handsome.  I guess its true what they say, only the good die young.  I still just don't even know what to do with myself.  The pain is still soooo great.  I feel like I am in a never ending nightmare and feel so much disbelief.  I am sure you feel or have felt the same way.  I spoke with my son only half hour before he passed, so when I got the call, I was in complete and utter disbelief.  It was not supposed to be.  But I HAVE to trust in God and know there was a reason. I just am not open enough yet to try and reason with that, but I will.

Its nice that we all have each other on this site.  I remarried for the 1st time last July after being divorced for 23 years.  My husband lost his 1st wife 8 years ago, but for some reason does not understand the depth of my grief so I feel no comfort from him since about 2 weeks after my sons death.  I have a feeling it will end my marriage.  My grief and my advocation for my son against people that agressively and recklessly drive is my drive right now and he does not understand that.  He should be siding with me and helping but he doesn't he thinks I am to consumed with it all.  Well I just let him know, get used to it, as i will be consumed with it every second for the rest of my life.  I will have a life but I will advocate every chance I have.

 

I sincerely hope you have all the support that is needed in these times.  I have my family and friends and of course my sons friends flocking around...they have been great.

 

If you would like to speak in regular email sometime, please feel free to email me at Sralls1@comcast.net or call sometime when you need 713-724-2993.  I would enjoy talking to someone that has been and is going through the same thing.

 

May you have sweet dreams of Jacky and remember all the good times.

 

Shelli

 

NANA MAYBE May 14, 2008
 
Matthew 18:10 states, "See that you do not look down on one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven." In the context, "these little ones" could either apply to those who believe in Him (v. 6) or it could refer to little children (vv. 3-5). This is the key passage when the discussion of guardian angels comes up. There is no doubt that good angels help protect (Daniel 6:20-23; 2 Kings 6:13-17), reveal information (Acts 7:52-53; Luke 1:11-20), guide (Matthew 1:20-21; Acts 8:26), provide for (Genesis 21:17-20; 1 Kings 19:5-7), and minister to believers in general (Hebrews 1:14). There are many more instances of these angelic activities in Scripture.

The question that arises is whether each person—or each believer—has an angel assigned to him/her. In the Old Testament, the nation of Israel had the archangel (Michael) assigned to it (Daniel 10:21; 12:1), but nowhere in Scripture does it state that an angel was "assigned" to an individual (they were sometimes sent to individuals, but no mention of "permanent" assignment is given). One commentator states that the Jews had fully developed the belief in guardian angels during the time between the Old and New Testament periods. Some early church fathers believed that each person had not only a good angel assigned to him/her, but also a demon. The belief in guardian angels has been around for a long time, but there is no scriptural basis for it.

To return to Matthew 18:10, the word their is a collective pronoun in the Greek and refers to the fact that believers are served by angels in general. These angels are pictured “always” watching the face of God so as to hear His command to them to help a believer when needed. If one is to take from the Matthew passage that guardian angels are referred to, it would seem that these angels are not on active duty, but rather "always see the face of" the Father in heaven. The active duty or oversight seems, then, to come more from God than the angels, which makes perfect sense because God alone is omniscient. He sees every believer at every moment, and He alone knows when one of us needs the intervention of an angel. Because they are continually seeing His face, the angels are at His disposal to help one of His “little ones.”

In Western society today, it is "in" to believe in angels. We have movies that focus on angels; we have TV series which portray angels as being assigned to help humans. Scripture makes it clear that although angels possess superhuman power and knowledge, they are created beings just as we are and are "nothing" compared to God. As such, they are not to be worshipped (Exodus 20:1-6; Colossians 2:18). Rather, worship is to be reserved for the Triune God alone. Unfortunately, while the shows about angels give lip service to God, the Son of God is rarely mentioned (if at all). And God says in John 5:23 that if one does not honor the Son, he does not honor the Father who sent Him.

It cannot be emphatically answered from Scripture whether each believer has a guardian angel assigned to him/her. But as stated earlier, God does use them in ministering to us. It is scriptural to say that He uses them as He uses us; i.e., He in no way needs us or them to accomplish His purposes but chooses to use us and them nevertheless (Job 4:18; Job 15:15). In the end, whether we have an angel assigned to protect us or not, we have a greater assurance that God gives: if we are His children through faith in Christ, He works all things together for good (Romans 8:28-30), and Jesus Christ will never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5-6). If we have an omniscient, omnipotent, all-loving God with us,



JUST EDIT AND GET RID OF IT WHEN YOUR DONE READING IT DOES IT HELP YOU AT ALL I HOPE  I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE ANSWER FOR YOU BUT NOTHING GIVES A REAL STRAIT FORWARD ANSWER
NANA MAYBE May 14, 2008
 
1 Exodus 19.
2 Exodus 32:34.
3. Daniel 10:20a-11:2.
4. Tobit 5:1-11:15.
5. Mt. 18:10.
6. Heb. 1:14.
7. cf. Acts 12:12-16.
8. CCC 336.
9. St. Basil, Adv. Eunomium III, 1: pg 29, 656B.
10. Commentary on Matthew 12, 27-28.
11. cf. John 21:15-18. 1


SOME SCRIPTURES ON GUARDIAN ANGELS I AM TRYING TO FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AND HAVE FOUND A LOT OF THINGS TO HELP ME I READ MORE EVERYDAY THAT I AM OFF WORK I WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO HUG YOU AND THANK YOU FOR CARING ABOUT SO MANY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE BUT THANK GOD FOR SENDING YOU TO US FOR EVERYTHING THERE IS A REASON AND A SEASON
NANA MAYBE May 14, 2008
 
From infancy to death human life is surrounded by their watchful care and intercession. “Beside each believer stands an angel as protector and shepherd leading him to life.” Already here on earth the Christian life shares by faith in the blessed company of angels and men united in God.
nana for a specail mother May 14, 2008
 



Janice i look forward to all you say
AND LOVE TO SEE ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LOOK FOR YOUR GUIDANCE
GOD HAS CHOSEN THE RIGHT PERSON
TO DO HIS WORK
AND SPREAD HIS LOVE AND WORD
YOU WILL BE BLESSED LOVE THE BOYS WITH ME ALWAYS
Vivian Family of Luis Avila 5/11/08 May 11, 2008
 

Hi Janice~ I hope you are having a pleasant, peaceful day. My day has been ok. Spent half the afternoon at the hospital with 2nd degree burns to my fingers, but I am okay. I was cooking for me and the kids(something I have not done much of since Luis died).

You are ever so right when you say that I have no adult support! All my "friends" took off when I needed them the most cause they were not TRUE friends to begin with. Imagine this, they are all starting to (for some strange reason) remember my phone number. When they call I tell them I do NOT know who they are. I have forgave them for deserting me, but I do not want them as my friends again. It is hard at times, more when I know that my own family is not here for me. Luis was my family with the kids, and I think that is why it is so hard to let him go. He was all I had and we shared everything with each other.

 

I know I have you, and I thank GOD everyday that he brought us together. Sometimes it takes me a while to write back, but I am here. I have been sleeping a little more than I should be here lately. I have my weeks of staying up too late unable to sleep that much and then I crash for days at a time. Only getting up to go to work and take the girls to do what they need to do.

 

I have been taking ONE DAY AT A TIME just like the song says. At church the Music Minister sings this song for me all the time. He sings it to me in Spanish the way Luis liked to hear it and I just close my eyes and I can see Luis standing beside me.

 

How is all going with you? The poems that Jacky wrote are beautiful. You had a very talented son and I know it feels good to know he knew GOD and you know where his soul is. Where the streets are made of gold and the rivers flow of milk and honey. NO more tears NO more sorrow No more pain nor sickness. One day we will join them Janice. I can't wait and I know you feel the same. All in Gods time my sister. Enjoy the rest of the your day and we will talk soon.

 

Vivian

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edith,Dens Mom Happy Mothers Day May 11, 2008
 
Janice,this  is  ur 1st Mothers Day w/o ur Angel Jacky.Remember all the happy times  u shared  w/him.Our boys may not be here  w/us,but the memories  & feelings  they  left us are inmeasurable.Shed a tear if  u feel like it,but smile as  u  think  of  all  Jacky brought to  ur  life.We are  the Special Moms who's  kids  were  chosen by God to  return to Him.we have  our own Guardian Angel who never leaves our side.My wish  for  u,is  that Jacky will  send u a sign to let u know he's  close by.Stay Strong my Friend..Hugs,Edith
nana you are specail May 7, 2008
 

glitter-graphics.comthings like this make me think of you always there no matter what is going on with you ,you have your own grief and still no matter how down you are you still care about me
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